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, 我 要 衷心 感謝 充滿 洞察力 的 馬克 . 利瑞 ( Mark Leary ) 博士 , 他 是 我 的 導師 , 也 是 傑出 的 心理學家 , 在 這 本 書 也 數 次 登場 。 他 透過 好幾 次 的 會議 提供 我 許多 建議 和 鼓勵 , 謹 以 此 書 由衷 致 上 謝意 。 參考 文獻 __UNDEF__ 前言 1. Wood , J. V. , Elaine Perunovic , W. Q. , & Lee , J. W. ( 2009 ) .
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